Saturday, June 18, 2011

Last night's Home Invasion, Child Abduction, Domestic Violence attack, Arrest and me

Last night I got summoned by a woman wanting help in a Domestic Violence situation. I wrote about another incident where I was recently called to come assist in a similar situation which I wrote about in So I get called to a Domestic Violence situation.

Last night I came upon the scene to find two neighbors in the yard, an unidentified man and the mother. She is screaming, “He's got my baby, he's got my baby. I just want my baby back!” Immediately inside the house are two men in a battle on the floor. Another neighbor is in the living room holding the baby.

I go in an order the men apart and get the attacker off of the father. The attacker then flees the house. The neighbor puts the baby in the crib and the father heads outside after the attacker who flees with the unidentified man down the road. A neighbor and I ensure that Father doesn't go after the attackers. We go inside to check on the baby but Mother had taken the child.

Father calls the police. An officer, who has previously responded to that residence, arrives while I am still on the phone with the dispatcher. He takes information from Father and the rest of us on scene. Father then goes with the officer.

About an hour later Father is home with his child, the Mother is in jail after being arrested for home invasion and domestic battery, and the police are looking for the other two perpetrators.

These two recent Domestic Violence situations both have something in common besides the woman seeking assistance. The woman was the aggressor or attacker in these incidents. In the case last night Mother was arrested. In the other incident I did not report it to the police.

What is alarming here is that these woman, the criminals, are the ones seeking assistance. They are the ones who feel so emboldened by policies and society's false perception of who a Domestic Violence perpetrator is that they feel that they may commit these crimes without repercussion. There is good reason for them to feel that they won't be held accountable.

Some of what I came to learn about this latest situation from one of the neighbors was that Mother had stabbed Father about three months ago. Father refused the neighbor's request to call the police then. Mother has a Protective Order against Father. Mother brook into Father's home while he was away. Mother had been violent against Father on numerous occasions during the time they still lived together but Father never called the police.

What I got to witness last night was apparently the phantom illusion of a female committing an act of Domestic Violence against a male. Organizations like the female only Indiana Coalition Against Domestic Violence or the Julian Center profit from the common misconception that women do not commit acts of Domestic Violence. However, RADAR provides us with the truth about Domestic Violence.

That truth is what I often witness; that women commit egregious acts of violence against fathers whom with they are in a relationship. The situation last night could very likely have been avoided if Father had done what all men in these situations should do. That is, the first time that a woman becomes violent have witnesses or record the incident and then call the police.

The statistics will continue to support the myth so long as men fail to take the proper action and have these mother's arrested and charged for the crimes they are committing.

Too often men are focused on not wanting to incite the woman further or have been verbally beaten into submission thinking that they could not provide suitable care for the children while the mother is in jail. Men carry their own inhibitions, denying that these women are criminals who are unlawfully attacking them and creating a dangerous environment for the children. Instead they wrongly believe that they did something to upset her and cause this. Further, many believe as it is their responsibility as “man of the house” to maintain order and handle these issues on their own.

It is not something that a man should handle on his own. To be proper men and fathers these victims need to seek outside assistance to help remedy the violence perpetrated against them and in their household. When these women attack it is not about trying to control the man or out of anger against him but, rather, it is commonly an effort to maintain control over the children.

That is what the focus must be on: the children. Any man who would not support a stranger coming into his home, attacking him and endangering the child should not provide an exemption to someone just because she happened to have been the host for the developing fetus before birth.

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Thursday, June 16, 2011

How to lose parenting time – Have an attorney that doesn't know Indiana child custody law

I tend to view myself as being quite knowledgeable about child custody law in Indiana. I attend all the meetings of the Domestic Relations Committee of the Indiana Judicial Center and I also write child custody law. Additionally, I read all of the higher court opinions as they relate to child custody law where I often see the same results; attorneys not being intimately familiar with child custody law.

Two days ago the Indiana Court of Appeals handed down another opinion where apparently an attorney had been deficient in his or her obligation to ensure that the client was well-advised about the child custody statutes and the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines.

In this case Father's parenting time was described to the appellate court as: “overnight parenting time every other weekend, over some holidays, and for two weeks during the summer.” The opinion included a footnote about that schedule which read: “Father testified that until just prior to the hearing in this case, he was unaware of his right under the Parenting Time Guidelines to have the children for approximately half of the summer, and that if his counsel in the dissolution had advised him of such, he would have taken that extended parenting time.”

Here, Father and the children could have spent more time with each other but, according to Father, his attorney failed to inform him that he was entitled to a minimum of half the Summer with his children instead of two weeks. Apparently the trial court made no findings as to why Father received less than the IPTG minimums. From what I could glean from the appellate ruling it appears that it was an agreed entry.

The IPTG at Section II(B)(3) provide that extended parenting time for children age 5 and older is:
“One-half of the summer vacation. The time may be either consecutive or split
into two (2) segments. The noncustodial parent shall give notice to the
custodial parent of the selection by April 1 of each year. If such notice is not
given, the custodial parent shall make the selection.”


A few questions come to mind my mind about this situation –

What would a parent pay to get three additional weeks per year with his or her child?

How did this father find this attorney?

What were the attorney's qualifications to take on a child custody case?

What amount of money did this father pay to that attorney to get less than what the IPTG suggest as a minimum to maintain a suitable relationship with his child?

What is the potential psychological impact that this could have had on the child?

What is the prospect of this father getting half the Summer break with his child in the future?

I can't answer the first four questions but if you are in a similar situation then you certainly can. As for the last question I do have the answer for that.

Very unlikely. The reason for that is because it is the policy of the State of Indiana to bring child custody proceedings to a conclusion and maintain consistency for the child. “This doctrine is reinforced by the concern for finality in custody matters.” See Baxendale v. Raich, 878 N.E.2d 1252, 1258 (Ind. 2008).

Thus, a parent seeking to modify a child custody order has a significant burden to overcome. That parent must show a substantial change in at least one of the factors that a court must consider under I.C. 31-17-2-8 and that the modification is in the best interest of the child. Here that just isn't likely to be the case. It is a long-held standard that a party is responsible for the oversights of his or her attorney.

So, onto the point I intend to make. It is extremely important that you start a child custody proceeding being as prepared as possible. That means being organizationally equipped, having knowledgeable counsel inclusive of an attorney if you are going to use one, knowing the pitfalls and being the best parent you can be.

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Wednesday, June 15, 2011

A mother who refuses to do what is best for her child, modification of custody denied and judicial misconduct

So the Indiana Court of Appeals hands down another decision on a pro se appeal, this time on 13 June 2011 where the trial court's denial of Father's petition to modify custody was affirmed. Unlike most pro se litigants this Father's appeal wasn't denied based purely upon a failure to comply with the Rules of Appellate Procedure. In fact, the trial court found Father was “completely cogent and prepared in court to show how poor the mother has done...”. However, Father's appeal was seriously deficient in numerous areas but the panel chose to decide the case on its merits.

Among some of the trial court's other findings were these about Mother.

“The mother’s mental health is poor as she has entered into a marriage after two weeks, stayed in a relationship that has been physically and verbally abusive due to alcohol issues with her new husband and she seemingly has no ability or will to make these issues better for her or her children.”
“That although the mother has stated she was pushing for the divorce that was filed by her current husband, the court was able to verify on its computer that the divorce has been dismissed.”
“The mother cannot seem to get past her relationship issues and seems only to focus on her well being and/or happiness...”
“...the court could find there are substantial changes thanks to mother’s complete inability to focus on the well being of the children rather than her well being...”


This has long been a concern of mine; where a mother puts her personal interest above that of a child. This is the primary reason that the most dangerous custody arrangement for children is sole custody with the mother. One of the things that bothered me most about my son's mother was her proclamation – “There can only be one person in your life that is the most important and that must be yourself.” She then went to live with one of her boyfriends and continued to treat our child as an inconvenience.

That attitude is what often leads to the abuse of children. It comes from both genders. As in this case the primary motivator for the mother is attachment to a man. It may have been financial, resulting from her insecurity or some other emotional issue. Here she chose someone who is violently abusive. In another case I knew of, a child was being sexually abused by the mother's live-in sexual partner. The mother refused to eject the abuser from the home even though she was aware of his sexual abuse of her daughter.

There are also the cases that we often see in the media where a man has violently assaulted a small child or infant, sometimes resulting in death, where the mother stood by and did nothing. Again, these men are people who see the child as an inconvenience. There is no biological connection between these men and the children so supporting those children is not conducive to the natural drive to reproduce, protect the offspring and see that they survive to reproduce. These men are naturally driven to mate with the woman and reproduce with her to pass along their genes. Supporting another man's children is in conflict with their biological mandate.

This is the basis for the divergence in attitude between my son's mother and I. I readily admit that when she said she did not want to have anymore children, although we had agreed to at least five, she was no longer the most important person in my life, my son was. It wasn't a conscious decision but I can look back and through applying what I have learned through my life see that this did happen.

My efforts were dedicated to my son not only because he was an infant and dependent upon me but because, in a purely biological sense, his mother could no longer assist in passing along my genes. I was left to be the person who was solely responsible for all the daily needs of our child; feeding, comfort, diaper changes, providing support and education.

Over time she became increasingly resentful of him for taking my attention and efforts away from her. Ultimately her psychological abuse of him turned physical including pointing a loaded gun at him and threatening to kill him. It was about a month later that she left and told me I am the one who wants him, I am the one who can keep him and take care of him.

Why then is it that women like this are able to obtain or retain custody of the children? In my case it was that she made a pay-off to Indiana Supreme Court Justice Steve David. In this case it was something different.

Here are some of the trial court's findings about the father.

“The court also found that the father in this case has convictions in his past as well and he is currently on the sex offender registry for the State of Indiana.”
“That upon further research on the computer during the hearing, the offenses were for Child Exploitation in both 2001 and 2002.”
“Clearly the father has mental and/or physical health issues as well.”
“...the father has committed atrocious acts against children in the past.”


The trial court did find that there had been a substantial change in circumstances but that modification of custody would not be in the best interest of the child. The Court of Appeals affirmed citing that since Father did not provide a transcript of the trial court trial then all the panel could rely upon was the findings. The panel then concluded that even though there had been a change the findings do not demonstrate that the trial court abused its discretion by finding that modification was not in the best interest of the child.

Had Father complied with the Rules of Appellate Procedure he may have had a different result. I have previously written about pro se appeals here.

I am often confronted by parents who bring to me evidence that there has been a substantial change in one or more of the eight factors so therefore they should be able to get a custody modification. This case clearly details why that is not so. I start by looking at the modification statute.

A trial court may not modify a child custody order unless (1) the modification is in the best interests of the child and (2) there is a substantial change in one or more of the factors a court may consider under Indiana Code § 31-17-2-8 when it originally determines custody. See In re Paternity of M.P.M.W., 908 N.E.2d 1205, 1208 (Ind. Ct. App. 2009).

In this case, the trial court found that although there was a substantial change in the factors in favor of Father, it was ultimately “not in the best interests of the child to modify custody.” Therefore, the statutory requirement had not been met. It is still left to that broad and undefined “best interests of the child” which is left to the discretion of the judge.

This case also gives rise to another statutory factor in child custody modification proceedings. I.C. § 31-17-2-21 states that “[T]he court shall not hear evidence on a matter occurring before the last custody proceeding between the parties unless the matter relates to a change in the factors relating to the best interests of the child[.]”

What this means is that you generally may not introduce evidence in a child custody modification proceeding that pre-dates the most recent proceeding. However, if it relates to the best interest of the child and one of the changed factors then it may be introduced. This is something that I have had to explain to lawyers who tell a client, “That was before the last hearing, we can't use it.”

Here is an example that I use. Father wants to modify custody. After their divorce mother neglected the children while living on her own. CPS substantiated the neglect. Now mother has divorced her second husband and is again living on her own. It could be reasonably predicted that as she is now living on her own and since she neglected the children last time she was on her own then she likely will again. Therefore, custody should be modified to Father.

Case law supports this contention. The paramount concern in consideration of child custody modification has always been the child’s best interests. See Joe v. Lebow, 670 N.E.2d 9, 21 (Ind. Ct. App. 1996) (quoting Pierce v. Pierce, 620 N.E.2d 726, 729 (Ind. Ct. App. 1993)). It is well within the discretion of the trial court to consider evidence entered in prior hearings in the same custody case when ruling on a motion to modify child custody and visitation. See Arms v. Arms, 803 N.E.2d 1201, 1209 (Ind. Ct. App. 2004) where it was stated that evidence from a prior hearing was just as relevant to instant hearing, as past behavior was a valid predictor of future conduct.

Here is where the case gets very interesting, moreso than it already has. Some of the trial court's findings including references to searches on the court's computer and that the court had done “research”.

“That although the mother has stated she was pushing for the divorce that was filed by her current husband, the court was able to verify on its computer that the divorce has been dismissed. As well, there are currently no contact orders between the mother and her husband thanks to pending criminal charges. The court also found on the computer that the mother’s current husband has been convicted of crimes before and, as stated above, faces charges currently for acts against the mother. The court also found that the father in this case has convictions in his past as well and he is currently on the sex offender registry for the State of Indiana. That upon further research on the computer during the hearing, the offenses were for Child Exploitation in both 2001 and 2002.”

The panel of the Indiana Court of Appeals reviewing this case did not miss the glaring admissions of the trial court's own investigation. There is a prohibition against a trial court conducting its own investigation and receiving ex parte evidence. That places the judge in the role of an advocate rather than an arbitrator and denies the parties of their right to engage in the evidentiary process.

The Code of Judicial Conduct, Rule 2.9(c) states that with regard to ex parte communications:
A judge shall not investigate facts in a matter independently, and shall consider only the evidence presented and any facts that may properly be judicially noticed. Commentary [6] to Rule 2.9 (c) clarifies that “[t]he prohibition against a judge investigating the facts in a matter extends to information available in all mediums.”

This case pleases me that I read every child custody decision as it provided the opportunity to share many lessons about child custody proceedings and the law in one neatly tied-together case. But it's not over with yet. This case also reveals something that is becoming more epidemic as the generational effect of the destruction of the American family is coming to fruition.

Sadly, the most unfortunate finding by the trial court was: “Quite honestly, neither parent in this matter seems fit to raise a child.”

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Monday, June 13, 2011

An effective weight loss plan

As I am nearing the weight that I was on the 21st anniversary of my birth I take a moment to reflect upon weight loss in general, what it has taken to get there and the benefits that I have received. I expect, rather I demand of myself, that I will lose the three pounds necessary to achieve the interim goal of my age 21 weight by the end of June. After that, the final goal is my high school graduation weight of 129 when I was age 17.

That was not my initial goal though. At age 19 I was a professional athlete who got struck by a vehicle and nearly killed. It wasn't until four years ago, at age 38, that I was able to begin athletics again. It took that many years for my body to restore itself to a usable level, for the pain to become manageable and to be able to walk without periodically stumbling or falling. The pain resulting from major nerve damage, which had been so severe the first year that contact with the surface of my skin such as wearing a sock had the same feeling as being burnt by fire, gradually subsided. By my mid-30's pain was no longer chronic. I began having pain-free periods after being well-rested, sometimes lasting until noon or occasionally later.

At my highest point, which not surprisingly was during my divorce and while getting an upper body workout from masonry and roofing work, I weighed 196 pounds. Typically, following my mid 20's, my weight had fluctuated between 165-185 pounds, often with the seasons. It seems that the Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's food eating frenzies, which occurred during a time of reduced outdoor activity, was not conducive to maintaining my weight.

On 12 December 2009 I decided I was going to start running competitively. That day I was 178 pounds. My goal then seemed easily attainable – a waist size the same as my hips – which I estimated would put me at a weight of about 155 pounds.

Rolling my ankle, resulting in a triple sprain, in February didn't help this mission. But through proper diet, walking and pure determination I had reached that goal by Spring.

Still dissatisfied with my body image I pursued further weight loss. Additionally, the proper balance of weight to provide the muscle mass to carry myself, yet minimize the load I had to carry, had not been reached. I kept setting and achieving incremental goals. Three pounds, seven pounds or one pant size smaller.

The process was as much psychological as it was physical. I relied upon the instruction I had received at the United States Olympic Training Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado when I was age 17 and also upon research I had conducted at the current time using the internet and health and nutrition books that I have.

While researching I came across every fad diet, hypnosis, medical procedure, device, exercise machine and all other possibly conceivable methods by which one could be persuaded to part with their money in the pursuit of weight lose. All of which do not produce the desired results. One claim that I would find reminded me of some late night infomercial about cleansing the body of toxins and the digestive tract of years of “built up sludge” lining the intestinal walls. The claim was that an adult can never return to their teenage weight because of maturation stages where bulk is added but more importantly because of this weighty mass of “built up sludge”.

To me it simply sounded like nonsense. None of the other diets or various other “secrets” to weight loss made sense either. In making a logical examination, as I do with everything, I asked myself – if any of these weight loss methods actually produced the desired results then why would there be new methods? The simple answer is – they don't! They only exist to separate people from their money not fat from their bodies.

I couldn't help myself from obsessing about that claim I had heard that a person cannot naturally return to their normal teenage weight. This concept is borne by common folklore as well as weight charts which differentiate based upon age. People kept telling me that it's just not biologically possible. To me it all sounded like a myth just as the “you must drink at least 64 ounces of water per day” myth is so commonly accepted, promoted and repeated, even by so-called knowledgeable medical professionals.

Inclusive of all the walking, running and bicycle riding that I do each day, while 90+ degrees lately, I have not consumed 64 ounces or more of water or any other beverage each day. But I have ensured that I stay properly hydrated. That 64 ounce myth may sound catchy just like a fad diet but what they have in common is what keeps people on a diet treadmill -- neither is based upon sound scientific evidence.

It is important that everyone maintain a healthy lifestyle of which part of that is a healthy weight. If you are involved in a child custody case then it can have added importance. By law a parent's health is one of the eight factors that a court must consider when making a child custody decision. A healthy lifestyle and a healthy weight can both be achieved regardless of what justifications some people may provide for their failure to do so.

My weight loss has certainly allowed me to be more competitive but it has done much more for me. All of my vital signs have improved. My resting pulse is generally around 45 now. I eat less, usually around 1200-1500 calories per day which is inclusive of my daily 5-10 miles of running and walking. More important, I generally feel more rested, alert and energetic.

The level of stress placed on my body has been reduced which has a corresponding effect on mental stress. The reduced caloric intake will lower my immune response and increase my longevity. As my son places higher demands on my time and energy level I am able to keep up. That is the most important thing to me.

So, I say now and assure you that I will attain that impossible weight of 129 pounds that carried this 5' 10” body across the finish line in 100+ races per year 25 years ago.

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Friday, June 10, 2011

Justice Steve David can't follow simple Indiana law

If you pay attention to political or legal news then you should be familiar with the decision by Justice Steve David striking down an Indiana law that allows for citizens to use force to resist an unlawful entry into their domicile. The decision by the Indiana Supreme Court in Barnes v State of Indiana was handed down on 12 May 2011.

After getting additional information about the case and speaking with some civil rights attorney's I wrote briefly about that case and Justice David in “I tried to warn”. In that posting I specifically stated that I have had significant experience in the Boone Circuit Court and with Justice David in particular while he sat in that court.

Early on I was dismayed to hear that people, especially legal analysts, were stunned by the decision in Barnes and David's judicial activism. To me though it was business as usual for Steve David. As a bully from the bench he often intimidated litigants and went against long established legal principles. Lawyers refused to make a challenge knowing that their future clients would suffer equally by David's arbitrary and unlawful actions.

I took a stand, however, and Judge David took the path of avoidance. Never did he face my claim that I would reveal corruption by him and the Boone County Prosecutor Todd Meyer.

Last week while I was catching up on my reading of the higher court opinions in child custody cases I came across an attorney fee issue in a divorce. There were no children involved but it still caught my attention because Justice David had heard the case. So I read on.

Charles R. Bilyeu appealed the trial court’s order that he pay the attorney’s fees of Frani Bilyeu upon the dissolution of their marriage. Charles raised a single issue for review, namely, whether the trial court erred when it ordered him to pay Frani’s attorney’s fees. The panel reversed and remanded with instructions.

On April 8, 2005, Charles and Frani executed a premarital agreement that provided, among other things, that neither shall “demand, claim, take or receive from the other party attorney’s fees or other litigation expenses to which he or she might otherwise be entitled by reason of any rights arising out of the marriage and the relationship of the parties.” The next day, they were married. Charles filed a petition for dissolution of the marriage on July 28, 2008.

On June 16, 2009, Charles filed a motion to determine the validity and enforceability of the parties’ premarital agreement. The court held an evidentiary hearing on that motion on August 19. On September 21, 2009, Judge David entered an order on Charle’s motion, expressly concluding that the premarital agreement “is valid and enforceable.” Essentially Judge David determined and entered an order that recognized that the parties' had voluntarily entered into the pre-marital agreement and that it was an enforceable contract pursuant to Indiana Law.

On March 11, 2010, the trial court entered its dissolution decree, with findings of fact and conclusions thereon pursuant to Indiana Trial Rule 52. In the decree the court again acknowledged that the original premarital agreement was “valid and enforceable.” But the court also concluded that Charles “has far superior earnings and earnings potential” over Frani and shall pay a portion of Frani's “attorney fees in the amount of $5,500 . . . .”

Charles filed a motion to correct error, which the trial court denied. A motion to correct error is basically an appeal to the judge. A party details the basis for his or her belief as to why the judge made an error, what the underlying facts and law are and why the judge's decision was an error based upon the facts and the law.

In this instance Charles argued that he and Frani had entered into a contract concerning attorney fees, among other things, the day before they wed. Judge David had recognized that their agreement was lawful and binding and he was therefore barred from making any decision contrary to that agreement. Contrary to their agreement though Judge David decided that Charles would have to pay $5,500 of Frani's attorney fees to Thomas A Whitsitt.

This was contrary to established case law and was fundamental error. Fundamental errors are those which are clear on their face and need no interpretation. It would be the equivalent of saying that even though you had a green light and the intersection was clear when you entered it the guy who had a red light and t-boned your car was not at fault because you didn't have the right-of-way. Judge David should have corrected the final decree of dissolution of marriage in this case and eliminated the portion of the order where Charles was to pay $5,500 of Frani's attorney fees since Charles and Frani neither wanted the other to be responsible for the attorney fees of the other. Judge David didn't admit his error, something he never does, so Charles had to appeal.

The primary and overriding purpose of contract law is to ascertain and give effect to the intentions of the parties. If the intention of the parties can be gleaned from their written expression, that intention must be effectuated by the court. In determining the parties’ intent, all of the contractual provisions must be read as a whole. See Gillette v. Gillette, 835 N.E.2d 556, 561-62 (Ind. Ct. App. 2005).

Again, in his appeal Charles asserted that the trial court erroneously ordered him to pay Frani’s attorney’s fees. The panel of the Indiana Court of Appeals agreed stating, “Under the plain terms of their premarital agreement, Husband and Wife must pay their own attorney’s fees.”

In the March 11, 2010 decree of dissolution of marriage, at paragraph three, Judge David referenced the September 2009 order that found the premarital agreement to be “valid and enforceable” and again restated that. Nonetheless, in paragraph 41, David ordered Charles to pay $5,500 of Frani’s attorney’s fees. The panel found, “That order is contrary to the terms of the premarital agreement, which the court reaffirmed in paragraph 3 of the same decree to be “valid and enforceable.”” This was not a simple mistake on Judge David's part. Judge David was specifically told that paragraph 41 was contrary to the parties' agreement as he had stipulated in paragraph three of the same document was valid and enforceable. Judge David simply ignored the wishes of the parties and Indiana contract law and decided to make his own law instead; specifically that if one party has greater financial resources or potential then he pays.

It was this concept of potential that Judge David has often used when making decisions which are contrary to law. In child support payment cases judges are allowed to make orders contemplating the potential income a parent could earn if that parent is currently unemployed or underemployed and had a history of employment during the marriage. See Indiana Child Support Guidelines [ICSG] at Section 3(A). However, “the guidelines are not meant to force persons to change careers or work up to their full economic potential.” See Matter of Paternity of Buehler (1991), Ind. App., 576 N.E.2d 1354.

Yet, one of the things Judge David liked to do was say that a parent who may have been a stay-at-home parent had the potential to earn substantial income by entering the workforce if he took custody of the child from that parent. That is clearly against established law and the ICSG which state a parent cannot be forced to into the workforce just to maximize child support payment obligations.

Another thing Judge David would do in denying or restricting parenting time is say that a parent had the potential to abuse, neglect or harm the child. He would make this basis upon his own arbitrary standard. Indiana Code 31-17-4-2 states, “The court may modify an order granting or denying parenting time rights whenever modification would serve the best interests of the child. However, the court shall not restrict a parent's parenting time rights unless the court finds that the parenting time might endanger the child's physical health or significantly impair the child's emotional development.” [1997]

However, parenting time may not be denied or restricted unless the court finds that “the visitation might endanger the child’s physical health or significantly impair the child’s emotional development.” See Lasater v. Lasater, 809 N.E.2d 380, 400-401 (Ind. Ct. App. 2004). Even though the statute uses the term “might,” the year following passage of the law the appeals court interpreted the language to mean that a court may not restrict visitation unless that visitation would endanger the child’s physical health or emotional development. See Stewart v. Stewart, 521 N.E.2d 956, 960 n.3 (Ind. Ct. App. 1988), reh’g denied, trans. denied. This is why it is important to know case law as I do.

Judge David has long experienced this God complex where he decides, based upon his own experiences, wishes or assumptions what would be best for litigants or society in general regardless of the law, wishes of the parties or what is actually best for those affected by his decisions. Just as in this immediate attorney fees case he did the same thing in the Fourth Amendment case of Barnes v State where he declared void an Indiana statute giving citizens the right to resist an unlawful entry into their homes.

Here, the Indiana Court of Appeals was rather clear about David's judicial activism – “Accordingly, we conclude that the trial court erred as a matter of law when it ordered Husband to pay $5,500 of Wife’s attorney’s fees. That part of the court’s order is contrary to the plain and unambiguous language of the parties’ premarital agreement and contrary to the court’s own unequivocal determination that the agreement is “valid and enforceable.”” [emphasis added]

Reversed and remanded with instructions.
Justices BAKER, and SHARPNACK, Sr., concur with Justice NAJAM

Still, there are people out there who hold a strange allegiance to Justice David and feel that he does no wrong. For those of us who respect the law and hold such documents as the Bill of Rights or the Indiana Constitution sacred and who value our personal liberties – we will be voting NO on the Justice David retention question on the November 2012 ballot.


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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

How to Lose an Appeal - Indiana Appellate Procedure

As part of my regular routine I read all of the Domestic Relations and child custody cases handed down by the Indiana Court of Appeals and the Indiana Supreme Court. I consistently come across decisions like the one I am examining today. This time it is a pro se litigant who's appeal was doomed from the outset by failure to comply with one of the simplest rules. I have previously written about similar appeals in Pro-se Litigant Child Custody Appeals where I examined appeals by pro se litigants and also some disastrous appeals by attorneys.

In this appeal, Joseph N Wright represented himself arguing the the trial court had abused its discretion by not modifying his child support payment obligation. Wright had been ordered to pay $177.06 per week based upon an imputed income of $50,000.

Modification of a child support order is governed by Indiana Code section 31-16-8-1 (2010), which provides that child support orders generally may only be modified upon a showing of (1) changed circumstances so substantial and continuing as to make the terms unreasonable; or (2) that a party has been ordered to pay an amount in child support differing by more than twenty percent from the amount which would have been ordered pursuant to the child support guidelines.

The trial court found that Wright had not proved his case. The party seeking to modify a child support order bears the burden of establishing that the requirements of section 31-16-8-1 have been met. See Saalfrank v. Saalfrank, 899 N.E.2d 671, 675 (Ind. Ct. App. 2008).

Ultimately the panel of the appeals court found that Wright had not met his burden to show that the trial court had abused its discretion. The panel noted that the trial court observed his “nice jewelry” and “nice clothes,” and stated, “I do not see any change in your income or circumstances in this case.”

I disagree with Magistrate Nanette K. Raduenz and Judge Elizabeth F. Tavitas that “nice jewelry” and “nice clothes” should have an impact on establishing a child support payment amount or the modification of a child support order. I was recently given a suit that belonged to the late Henry Karlson, famed Indiana University law professor and civil rights attorney. It clearly falls into the category of "nice clothes" yet in no way does it change my paltry level of income.

Setting the substance of the case aside I move to a fundamental error made by Wright and quite a few others. The Court of Appeals noted as follows:
"As a preliminary matter, Wright has failed to supply this court with a copy of the transcript from the hearing or with citations to relevant parts of the record relied upon as required by Indiana Appellate Rule 46(A)(8)(a). Without a complete record and corresponding citations thereto, Wright’s claims are waived."

I do not know where Wright obtained his information on how to write and appeal but he missed one of the most basic rules which does not apply under only a very limited set of circumstances. The panel needs to see the trial court record!!! For some reason they just don't take a litigant's word that what is claimed was actually done or said in court.

Having a record to examine is essential to deciding an appeal. Following the rules is also essential. Appellate work is laborious, requires strict adherence to the rules and must be done using a mindset prepared to make logical argument.

The higher courts have consistently held that pro se litigants will be held to the same standard as trained attorneys. Appeals are something that should not be done alone. Even some attorneys use an assistant when doing appeals.

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